The problem of the “Christmas Christian” is one that’s troubled
church leaders for decades. As a former youth pastor, I looked forward
to seeing new faces in my youth group around the holiday season.
However, once Christmas passed, those “Christmas Christians”
disappeared. Ninety percent
of Americans celebrate Christmas, but it doesn’t translate into greater
engagement with their faith the rest of the year. This is especially
true for students, who are increasingly distancing themselves from their faith.
The
problem of inconsistent church attendance is symptomatic of a greater
issue – that young Americans simply don’t feel connected to their
faith.
I think the key to helping students connect with their
faith is allowing them to embrace aspects of their faith that might be
challenging or uncomfortable. While youth group pizza parties and movie
nights can be effective in attracting students to the church, they
should be paired with experiences that take the students out of their
spiritual comfort zone.
In my experience working with young
people, I’ve seen their craving for a faith that is deep and real, and a
desire to better understand their Christian identity. We have to push
them to understand the raw reality of their faith, especially when
that’s hard. They must examine their faith honestly, wrestle with what
it means to them, and think about where they fit among thousands of
years of tradition and history.
After my time as a youth pastor, I
was a personal trainer. Both careers taught me that true strength comes
from a healthy relationship with discomfort. You have to place the
appropriate amount of resistance on a muscle, and then push. That’s what
a faith journey does. When their faith raises uncomfortable questions
or demands an examination of identity, students have the opportunity to
embrace this discomfort and emerge as stronger Christians. The journey
of faith is one of encountering and then engaging with challenge, which
ultimately produces resilience and a richer faith.
Romans
elaborates on this idea: “We rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that
suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and
character produces hope, and hope does not disappoint us.”
I am
no stranger to a struggle with faith. Becoming a youth pastor was the
fulfillment of a long-held dream. But the unhealthy culture at the
church where I was working took a toll on my mental, emotional, and
spiritual health. At a certain point, I knew that to preserve what I had
left, I needed to leave the job I believed to be the calling of my
life. I was in a crisis of faith.
A few years later, I spoke to a
friend of mine, who told me about a project he was developing that
would take thousands of Christian college students to Israel. This
friend, Scott Phillips, would become the executive director of Passages,
an organization that gives students the opportunity to visit the
birthplace of the Bible, affordably and with other students. And I would
eventually become its managing director.
Six months after that
conversation with Scott, I was standing in Israel. There, I reconnected
with the roots of my faith. Three years after leaving my role as a youth
pastor, I stood on Mt. Precipice in the north of Israel, reflecting on
where God had brought me – back to working with young Christians in a
new and fresh way, training them to work through their own doubt, faith,
and walk with God.
I thought my calling was dead in the water.
Instead, it was waiting for me on that hill in Israel. An uncomfortable
journey with my faith had led me to something beyond what I could have
ever imagined.
Participants in our program aren’t simply
motivated, inspired, or sensationally interested in the region. They
strengthen their faith by walking in the real-life backdrops of ancient
scriptures and wrestling with the depth and complexity of Israel.
They’re confronted with a reality that is probably much different than
what they had imagined all their lives.
Students often report
mixed feelings when they encounter a familiar Biblical site for the
first time, however, this confrontation with the tangible reality of the
Bible inspires students to engage more with the Scriptures upon their
return. We’ve seen in surveys of our participants that, following their
journey, 90% increase how often they read the Bible, 85% increase how
often they pray, 67% become more active in campus ministry, and 56%
attend church more often.
Seeing Jesus’ birthplace is
transformational because it prompts students to grapple with the reality
of their faith. As they see the real places of Scripture with their own
eyes, they have another opportunity to respond to this reality in
belief and action. This Christmas and in the new year, let’s seize the
chance to show young people what a true faith experience can be:
challenging, honest, and ultimately life-changing.
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